The Effects of Communication Styles on Marital Satisfaction (Essay Sample)

Running head: EFFECTS OF COMMUNICATION ON MARITAL SATISFACTION 1
The Effects of Communication Styles on Marital Satisfaction
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The differences in communication styles between men and women have been a
topic of interest in the research world for many years. These differences may lead to
miscommunication, conflict, and even dissatisfaction between couples. This study
analyzes the communication styles among genders, more specifically among married
couples. It questions how differences in communication styles between married couples
married five years or less affect marital satisfaction. The study will be conducted
through the use of an interaction analysis. Its goal is to increase the amount of
knowledge regarding effective communication and how it relates to marital satisfaction
in order to ultimately aid in the rise of marital satisfaction and the decrease of the
divorce rate in the United States.
Today, divorce has become a very common part of life, and it is likely that
ineffective communication plays a crucial role in the failure of many marriages.
Communication may lead to the success of a marriage or to its detriment, depending on
its level of effectiveness. This effectiveness of communication is likely connected to the
overall satisfaction of married couples and is worthy to be studied in order to increase
marital satisfaction.
Learning more about the differences in communication styles between men and
women will aid in the more successful sending and receiving of messages, both verbal
and nonverbal. For example, a woman may communicate in a way that has meaning to
her. However, the man receiving the message may interpret it differently than she
intended due to their differences in communication style. This can cause conflict and
lead to further problems in the relationship. However, if the man decoding the message
were familiar with his wife’s style of communication, he may have interpreted it properly
therefore avoiding a conflict situation. The reverse, when men are communicating to
women, is also true. Husbands and wives are interdependent, and their level of
commitment and desire to maintain a healthy relationship often depends on the other
person (Weigel & Ballard-Reisch, 2008).
Conventional wisdom says that there is no such thing as lack of communication.
A person always communicates something, whether intentional or not. Becoming more
aware of how one’s own self communicates will also aid in more healthy communication
between spouses.
This literature review will discuss nonverbal communication styles, including
flirtation, and conflict communication, including communicated perspective-taking.
This study will further advance communication research by helping people
discover more about their personal communication styles as men and women and by
helping them communicate more effectively with their partners. In a culture where
marriage is considered a risk, it is crucial to conduct studies that will help further the